I am going on dates. Yes, I am. I just get them set up and go. If I evaluate too much about whether I should be working, spending time with the kids, making jewelry, reading a book or watching another attention gripping Asian soap, I would never date. Most of finding the right guy is probably just being out there. Being a working person is not so easy to meet new friends these days, let alone meeting the potential Mr. Right.
But dating is about patience. Sometimes, one meets a relatively self-absorb person and there goes the time - tick tock tick tock ... when is dinner over?
Then there are times when I meet a nice guy who I could have a wonderful conversation with, but who would be shocked I have two children.
So I am meeting many friends, and I'll will not be short of pals to watch movies or see plays. Perhaps that's what life is all about - companionship and great experiences. The end goal may not be to find that Mr. Right, but to live the stimulating experiences of each day.
